Dad

[forrealone]

Dad died yesterday in hospice care, nearly a year after mom passed. We had just moved him into a new place, too, and was just getting settled in, although I don't think that was a major factor in him passing. The last time I saw him was the 28th last month, for a little get together for my daughter's 18th, and he was alert and aware of everything (as much as he could be at 88, with dementia). He's been on constant oxygen for a few weeks leading up to dying, and just slowly deteriorating...what's called "transitioning" in care terms. So it wasn't a total surprise for anyone, but he did transition rather quickly.

My sisters are getting things ready with the funeral home and church. I'm writing the obituary and making a memorial video, just like I did with mom. So, lots of work to do in the coming week.

That's all. Thank you for the support, family

Gosh, Jay.  I am so sorry.  For you.  You certainly have been facing some challenges this past year and my heart aches for yours.  I know men perhaps don't feel like we women do, but I would have to think this has been difficult for you. 
I also feel sad for your children and the rest of your family.  To lose both parent/grandparents so close in time to one another is difficult. 
If there is ANYTHING I can do beyond my prayers, please let me know!  If you need a break, you are welcome to come visit.

That video of your Mom was beautiful!  What a wonderful tribute.

Prayers lifting for you all!!