I would tell someone outside that our (my) way is right for us (me), not necessarily right for everyone. Summarizing the rest: The beliefs passed down were not from the Apostles, nor consistent with the Bible as a whole. Until we study and think like the Hebrew people who brought us the gospel, we can't really understand it.
Heart-led was not a phrase they used because, in Bible times, everyone did it without having to think about it. (Refer to studies in Ancient Near Eastern civilizations.) We lost touch with that after the First Century as the leadership of churches fell increasingly into the hands of Westerners who knew no such thing. Also make note of the influence of the Judaizers and what that meant in terms of perverting revelation by preference for reason.
Heart-led was not a phrase they used because, in Bible times, everyone did it without having to think about it. (Refer to studies in Ancient Near Eastern civilizations.) We lost touch with that after the First Century as the leadership of churches fell increasingly into the hands of Westerners who knew no such thing. Also make note of the influence of the Judaizers and what that meant in terms of perverting revelation by preference for reason.